Those Money Issues with Pinoy Girls

Problems with sending money to Filipino girl

 

Spending Moneyin the Philippines
Spending Moneyin the Philippines

You went looking for the love of your life, didn’t you? You want to believe that she is with you purely because she loves you, right? She’s not with you for the money, is she? Despite all the stories you hear of Filipina girl gold-diggers who take up with men they don’t care about because of money, you are certain that your relationship isn’t like that, right?

Well, how could you possibly be certain when you’re sending her large amounts of money?

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5 thoughts on “Those Money Issues with Pinoy Girls

  1. MOST GUYS DON’T GET THE OBVIOUS WHEN MARRYING A FILIPINA. NO MATTER IF YOU TELL THE GIRL YOU ARE POOR, YOU MIGHT AS WELL BE TALKING TO A CHILD. THEY JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND MONEY HERE. ALL THEY SEE IS YOU HAVE MONEY TO GET ON AN AIRPLANE AND FLY TO THE PHILIPPINES TO MEET THEM. YOU MUST BE RICH IF YOU CAN FLY ANYWHERE. I DON’T KNOW EXACT PERCENTAGES BUT I WOULD BET LESS THAN 1 PER CENT OF FILIPINAS HAVE EVER BEEN ON A PLANE AT ALL. I HAVE KNOWN SO MANY GUYS HERE THAT JUST THINK THEY ARE SO WONDERFUL THAT THESE GIRLS FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM INSTANTLY. IF YOU DON’T THINK A GREEN CARD TO AMERICA IS AT LEAST HALF THE REASON THEY WANT TO MARRY YOU, THEN YOU MUST BE EITHER BE VERY DUMB OR JUST CRAZY. I HAD VERY MANY GIRLS TO CHOOSE FROM WHEN I WENT TO THE PHIL. ALL OF THEM 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. I AM OVERWEIGHT NOT THAT GOOD LOOKING AND I SURE DON’T HAVE MUCH MONEY. THESE GIRLS WANT TO COME HERE AND WORK AND SEND MONEY TO THEIR FAMILIES. THIS SAID FILIPINAS ARE USUALLY FUN GIRLS TO BE AROUND AND WILL TAKE VERY GOOD CARE OF YOU. COMING TO AMERICA THEY WILLLL LEARN AMERICAN WAYS AND UNLIKE THE PHILIPPINES THERE IS DIVORCE HERE. ONCE HERE IF YOU TREAT YOUR GIRL RIGHT SHE WILL PROBABLY STAY WITH YOU FOREVER AND BE A GOOD WIFE. ONE WORD OF ADVICE THOUGH IF YOU MARRY SOMEONE UNDER 25 AND YOU ARE OVER 40 GOOD LUCK. GIRLS UNDER 30 STILL HAVEN’T MATURED ANY MORE IN THE PHIL THAN THEY HAVE HERE. I KNOW PEOPLE WILL ARGUE THIS POINT BUT I HAVE KNOWN MANY YOUNG FILIPINAS AND THEY AREN’T ANY DIFFERENT IN THIS RESPECT THAN AMERICAN GIRLS. I WAS MARRIED TO A FILIPINA FOR TEN YEARS AND AM MARRIED TO A BEAUTIFUL FILIPINA NOW. I ENCOURAGE MEN TO MARRY FILIPINA GIRLS IF THEY HAVE THE CHANCE BECAUSE THEY ARE USUALLY SWEET LOVING PEOPLE. JUST TRY TO TAKE AS MUCH TIME AS YOU CAN TO GET TO KNOW THEM. IT IS EXPENSIVE TRAVELLING TO THE PHIL AND YOU DON’T WANT TO BE IN TOO MUCH RUSH TO MARRY SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE CUTE. IF YOU ARE DIVORCED AND HAVE KIDS IT IS EASIER MARRYING A FILIPINA THAN AN AMERICAN GIRL. YOU JUST DON’T WANT ANOTHER DIVORCE SO BE CAREFUL. SOME FILIPINAS ARE SCAMMERS AND JUST WANT YOUR MONEY BUT THE VAST MAJORITY WANT A GOOD HUSBAND AND A BETTER LIFE. DON’T BE STUPID WITH YOUR MONEY. MOST FILIPINAS WILL MARRY YOU TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE. ANY GIRL ALWAYS ASKING FOR MONEY IS DEFINETLY A BAD BET. BEST OF LUCK TO ALL YOU GUYS LOOKING FOR A GOOD WIFE IN THE PHIL. THEY ARE DEFINETLY PLENTY TO BE FOUND. ROBERT

  2. thanks robert . that was good news. i meet someone. she never ask for money. we been knowing each other for seven months. need more advice on some things, do you have a website or service to help someone like me. thanks jakk .

  3. Our son, 45, has married 3 filipina young women so far. They are lovely young women but only have stayed in the marriage a few years, once here they quickly start looking to better their situations. As he is not rich. He did build wife number two a really nice house in the PI. True, they have all been sweet and really nice to us. His last wife was only 20! It is so sad that these lovely young women do this. The hardest thing is we can’t talk because of the language*

  4. A marriage is a two way street. I know of one Filipina wife here in Australia that has been dreadfully treated by her husband. She is seriously thinking of leaving him and returning home. However the progression of the relationship as far as we can figure out is mostly his fault as he continually puts her down. I won’t give any specifics but she is criticized for cooking steak the wrong way and cleaning etc even though she does it out of love. Regardless of nationality any woman would eventually have ideas of leaving such an abusive man even if she was deeply in love.

    For my wife reality has set in as she finds out even though the wages are much more in Australia the expenses such as housing are also very much more. However she is very practical and gets to work making sure everything functions as I do have a number of health issues recently. Mind you she looks to me for leadership and to make the final decision on something after she has put her ideas and case forward. EG. Should I get a new job or not?. Or should I study this course or not? Yes as a man you better know where you are heading or she will do it for you. Make no mistake a good Filipina is very nice and loving and faithful but ever so determined to improve their families lot in life and by definition that includes you as well whether you want it or not.

    My wife went through extreme poverty due to her family borrowing money to live. She is absolutely determined that will never happen to her again. And that means I better provide well by working hard and helping her to work also.

    As to sending money back to ones adopted family in the Philippines I have made it clear right at the start I will only provide funds to her mum for health issues and only to those in need of an education up to first cousin. If I find out at all that the money has been used to buy say, a new motorbike, karaoke machine or gambled we will never give any help to that person again. She agrees completely with this even taking it a step further on one nephew who decided to take up with a woman prior to finishing his studies. He is cut off and has to fend for himself till he gets rid of that woman and goes back to studies to look after his family. I do expect those adopted relatives to take care of themselves. I will provide abundant advice if required from my own business experiences so they can help themselves. The relatives are smart enough to run their business ideas past me first as I can strongly disapprove of half baked schemes.

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